"Nope. Making you feel guilty wasn't even a little bit my goal, and from the sounds of things, it wasn't his, either. I wanted you to have a real conversation with him about what happened because you died - because of how you died - and how he was affected by it. And from what I hear, when he tried to do that, you shut him down."

She pauses, briefly.

"You don't have to focus entirely on yourself; the people who do that have their own issues, and most of them are inmates, too. I'm glad that you care about your friends. But you're not going to be able to do right by them if you can't look critically at the big-ass mistakes you've made."