[There's a long pause, and then ... a sigh. It sounds heavy.]

You didn't ask, but I'm gonna give you some advice anyway, alright?

[He sounds utterly serious.]

Take it slow. For both your sakes. You have a chance to build something really lasting if you're so inclined, and a slipshod rush job can have serious consequences later. Take your time, and find out what you both like, and what you don't like, together and apart. You got all the time in the world here, and that's a precious opportunity. And...

[Hesitation.]